HARNESSES & STRAP-ON

Strap-ons and harnesses allow you to enjoy hands-free sex in the most comfortable and pleasurable way. Made by women for women, our top-quality harnesses and strap-ons offer high quality. Visit our strap-on dildos range and select your harnesses.

Here at Wetforher.com, our range of best-selling strapon harnesses are designed by lesbians and guarantee to deliver maximum pleasure for the wearer and receiver. Whether you are new to using a strapon harness or you are looking for a new style to try, we have all the best names in strapon harnesses for you to explore below. Browse our selection of dildos and harnesses and find the perfect strap-on harness to add to your sex toy collection. We even have strap-on harnesses that allow for double penetration!

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FAQ

What type of strap-on harnesses are there for lesbians ?

There are two main types of harnesses for strap-on plays. Underwear style harnesses, which look like a pair of underwear and range from a variety of styles like boxer briefs, thongs, and boy shorts. Strap-on style harnesses come with adjustable straps to fit with your body shape. These come in thong and jockstrap styles to fit those with vulvas or penises. Wet for Her carries a plentitude of harness styles, from boxer brief, thong, jockstrap, lingerie, and boy shorts. Check out our harness selection here: https://www.wetforher.com/all-harnesses

How is a harness supposed to fit?

Harnesses should not fit loosely. In fact, you want them to be as snug as possible, like your “best pair of jeans that make your butt look good” kind of snug. The more well-adjusted your strap-on harness is to your body, the easier it will be to move and control the attached dildo when you're pegging or penetrating your partner.

What types and sizes of strapon dildos can a harness fit?

Harnesses can fit a variety of dildos, from silicone, glass, stainless steel, and pyrex dildos. We recommend using silicone dildos as they are not as heavy and tend to be flexible enough to control for penetrative sex. For beginners who are new to strap-ons, we recommend a dildo that is five to seven inches long and 1.5 to 1.75 inches in diameter. It is always ideal to start off one size down so you don’t get one that is too big. You can also consider texture, so it’s best to experiment with dildos and see which ones you and your partner prefer! We carry strap-on dildos that vibrate, are curved, suction dildos, G-spot dildos, and even trans* inclusive packers which double as dildos. Check out our strap-on dildos here: https://www.wetforher.com/61-strap-on-dildos

How do I care for a strap-on dildo?

The same way you would care for any of your regular sex toys! Remember to clean them after every use with a foam toy cleanser or by using an antibacterial soap and warm water. To increase its shelf life, we recommend storing it somewhere where it is dry and room temperature, preferably inside of a case or a satin pouch.

Are there any drawbacks to using a strap-on sex toy?

No drawbacks! Only more fun ways to explore and have sex!

How do I use a strap-on dildo? What are the general steps I should follow?

The first step you’ll want to take is adjusting the harness to your body. Make sure to adjust it as snug as you can without it being too tight that it’s cutting off circulation or becoming uncomfortable. Next, you’re going to want to insert the dildo into the O-ring, a hole within the harness’s strap which can fit dildos. Make sure everything is well-adjusted. Afterwards, you and your partner can use lube, with whoever is receiving applying lubricant to themself and whoever is wearing the strap-on applying lubricant to the dildo. Take things slow and be patient and reapply lube whenever necessary. Don’t worry if things start off slow, not everything will remain linear and it is a new form of sexual play, in fact! Remain open-minded and everything should work out great.

What are the benefits of a strap-on dildo?

Strap-ons dildos provide a fun and engaging way to explore new modalities of sex with your partner, especially if one of you would like to provide penetrative sex to the other. Strap-on sex can help improve pleasure for both parties, increase intimacy, and even provide a cool power trip to the one on the giving end. Most lesbian couples enjoy strap-os didlos as they get to see the way their partner’s react to pleasure. Additionally, it’s a great way to stimulate your G-spot, your P-spot or prostate, or your A-spot and anus.

Can a strap-on dildo be combined with a vibrator?

Yes! And that’s one of the greatest benefits of using strap-on dildos. Some strapons for lesbians already come with vibrating features and provide even more intensity and pleasure for both wearer and receiver. You are also free to pair your vibrator sex toy with your strap-on for extra fun. Wet for Her carries a variety of strap-on dildo that vibrates all the wet fun. Our popular UNION double dildo features an innovative style for both wearer and receiver with amazing vibration: https://www.wetforher.com/union-double-dildo-vibrating-pink.html We also carry a clitoris ring vibrator you can plug on to your strap-on dildo for even more fun! https://www.wetforher.com/wowhertm-clitoris-ring-vibrator-plug-on.html

Is a strap-on the same thing as a dildo?

Strap-ons sex toys are a type of dildo which can be adjusted and fitted to a harness. So in a sense, yes, they are technically the same thing. Some strap-on dildos can be used as regular sex toys if you would prefer to do some solo play or use it on your partner without a harness.
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Strap-ons Dildos & Harnesses

Strap-ons dildos and harness designed by lesbians for lesbians to be sexy and efficient while using strap-on sex toys. No more massive, leather, and uncomfortable straps that kill the mood, bought from a sex shop that doesn’t represent your lifestyle. All our strap-on dildos and harnesses fits our sex toys and dildos easily and efficiently due to an elastic o'ring. The elastic o'ring will work perfectly with any dildo and sex toys from small to Xlarge diameter. Whether you rock a boyish or a lipstick lingerie style and/or enjoy bondage, anal, and fetish pleasure, we have boxer gear strap-on style, sexy lingerie panty dildo harnesses and even fine lingerie with or without tantalizing garter belt. The materials used in our strap-ons are comfortable and the details and finishes are carefully applied for a quality garment such as the o'ring. All our strap-ons harness our machine washable, unlike leather strap-ons.

Whether you are looking for a strap-on harness, a packer and harness combo, or a complete strap-on dildo harness kit, we offer strap-on harnesses that are perfect for beginners and experts alike. For those with experience, browse our extensive range of double dildos and harnesses, packers and lesbian sex toys, we offer the best harness for strap-on dildos and packers on the market, with strap-ons to suit all abilities, desires, and sizes. All our underwear for strap on dildos are machine washable and are designed with your comfort in mind.

Browse our extensive collection of strap-on harness kits below and find the perfect dildo and/or packer harnesses for you and your partner.

Not sure where to start when it comes to strap on dildos? Check out our How to Use a Strap-On Guide and discover how strap-ons can transform your sex life and what you need.

Who can use a strapon harness?

If you are looking for a new sexual experience with your partner, a strap-on harness is a great choice. With a more diverse range of harness kits than ever before, you are guaranteed to find the strap-on harness dildo to take your sexual satisfaction to the next level.

As experts in LGBTQIA+ sex toys, our selection of strap-on harness kits includes strapless strap-ons, vibrating strap-ons, and double strap-ons, each with an adjustable harness, perfect for any queer or lesbian couple.